Surreal

(i appologize in advance for my poor writing abilities)

that's the word he used to describe it. the inconceivable occurs when we least expect it; often times the best it can be. other times, quite the opposite. he had met a girl, the likes of which he had never met before. she took quite a shine to him; things were going better than words could say. his girlfriend and he were getting along amazingly well and life had never felt so worth living.

his girlfriend's father killed himself today.

surreal. is it coincidence that he came into her life to be an anchor of support and comfort in a time of most immense need? is anything pure coincidence, for that matter?

things do not just happen for the sake of happening. i do not suggest any sort of belief in pre-destination, but, there is no such thing as random. everything is caused by something else and that something creates an effect(s). your action creates a reaction and/or effect on someone else's life whether unbeknownst to you or not. any decision you choose to make could be your last. do choose wisely, my dear friends.

i'm so sorry. i wish more consoling words would come to my mind.